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Hello readers.
I hove you are fine today.

This time, I want to share about traffic light for wedding. Have you ever hear about it?
Oke, whatever you answer. I want to share my thinking about it. Actually it bases on my daily activity.

One day, I attended wedding ceremony. Then, I sat beside my friend. My friend was a woman. We talked as natural guest in that ceremony. I have known the she was a single woman. 

Firstly, she asked me about the groom. 
Did the groom young? 
I answered " I didn't know. 
How old were you miss? 
I have born in 1991 so, my age is 24 years old. 
That was yellow sign miss

She was angry to me because I said the yellow sign for being married.

An actually the more older the women, the light sign is green not other colour such as yellow or red.
Because the parents of course ask their daughters about it. The more parents ask about it. It means the parents give green sign to the daughter. Finally, the full green light sign is for women who have getting older and older. 

Besides, this green light sign also useful for man. The parents also ask their son about married program. But the most asking by parents is the woman. 

That's all my sharing for this time
Thanks and have a nice week end.



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