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Chosing Lady Becoming wife

The writer is a moslem, so this writing is a view of Islam.

In islam there are four basic parts the man and woman should see from the candidate of partner. The four basics are:

1. The bauty (Jamaliha)
2. The wealth (Gony)
3. The family (Family)
4. Reiligion (Addin)

The man and women see those factor to your partner. Do you like the beauty, wealth, family and religion. However, the religion become the priority one then the others factors and the reason is most of expert in islam do not allow the married in different religion. 

According to speech of K.H Zainuddin, hardly to find the man and woman had those four factors even though there is man and woman who had those factors but it is  hard to find in this universe. So, how to select the best candidate of your partner?

According to my discussion and my friends, the beauty is  desire, the wealth is materialists, family is conceit and religion is peaceful. I asked him, please chose two aspects from those factors, he answered beauty and religion. His reason the woman who had good religion, usually the family is good, and the beauty is the need of desire and beauty is natural. On the other hand, the other friends said he wanted the two factors were religion and family. The reason, he said the religion is priority and the family is the good habis has educated to the woman. 

So, how about you, choose two factors from those factors and give the reason in comment column.


Notes
Take the goodness and left the badness
The goodness is belong to Allah and the badness is mine
Thank you  

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