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You and Your Neighbour

This is my monitoring to my friends. My friends is worker in National television. So, he must go to work every work-days except the holiday or red date. Every day, I see him hang-out in the terrace of the kitchen's door when he is getting holiday. He interacts with the neighbour as long as he is sitting in the terrace/bench and the communication is very good. The unique one is his approach to communicate well to the neighbour. Based on my mentoring, he always orders a cup of coffee when he wants to sit in the terrace and chatting with the neighbour. So, the important point in this monitoring is buying a cup of coffee when the man is sitting in the terrace or bench. Then, the neighbours do not think that he is an arrogance man or the man who does not want to join to the neighbour.  

Then, I want to share here for you the key of neighbouring especially in My country (Indonesia) is buying their products which you can use it or eat it. Then, if you do not like the products, you can buy it as your gives or reward for your students. When you buy your neighbour products, you are communicating with them. So, your neighbour will not think that you are arrogance or conceited people. You do not need to buy their products every week, you just buy their products when you think that you get bed feeling to your neighbours. I suggest you to buy in twice in two months. Tthis method can implement in you daily life and your country because this case is happen to many people in this universe, but they do not know how to solve it. For example is me (the writer), I want to talk to my neighbour but I cannot do it because I do not know what topic to talk, if just saying good morning and others expression for greeting are not enough because we life not in one year but more then three year. Then, the differences between me and my friends who works in the national television is buying a cup of coffee to our neighbours. 

The key words are neighbours, buying and products



Notes
Take the goodness and left the badness
The goodness is belong to Allah and the badness is mine (writer)
Thank you

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